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Where did you learn that?
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Was that through your role in finance and production?
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Or was that just something that came from within, where you're like no, I'm going to test the waters and negotiate.
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Yeah, I've been asked that before.
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Even my therapist was like why do you do those things?
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Why are you okay with just starting over?
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I was like I don't know, Isn't that your job?
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To figure me out, You're?
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like I'm paying you for this.
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Hey everyone, Welcome to the Sugar Daddy podcast.
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I'm Jessica and I'm Brandon, and we're the Norwoods, a husband and wife team here to demystify the realm of dollars so it all makes sense while giving you a glimpse into our relationship with money and each other.
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We are so glad you're here.
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Let's get started.
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Babe, I am so excited, Totally fangirling over here.
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We have Mandy Money on the podcast today.
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Can you believe it?
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You made it happen.
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Woo, I slid into my DMs.
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Listen, I love a good DM.
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Okay, if you do it the right way and you're genuine, I feel like amazing things can happen.
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I feel you have a really good job of reaching out to people that you don't necessarily know on Instagram and actually getting a response, because I don't think that would work so well for me.
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Well, I never would have slid into your DMs.
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You're amazing.
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You have to catch people at the right time.
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I once I slid into I like I didn't well, before sliding into DMs, I emailed someone I really admired, didn't hear back for like a year.
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I found out she had a brain aneurysm and I was like, oh, she hates me, but it turns out so, you never know.
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You got to, it's the timing, you know.
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So, even Even if they don't reach out, I'm constantly telling people to like cold LinkedIn, connect and send messages and stuff.
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And there is this fear like what if I don't hear back?
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And I'm like, if that's the worst thing that happens, just do it.
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That's my motto.
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What's the worst that can happen?
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Also, my connection request with you on LinkedIn is pending, so now that we're going to be best friends, I need that fixed, okay.
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Okay, great, call me out on it right now.
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I'll get in there?
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Okay, perfect.
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Well, listen, we're.
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We have a lot to talk about.
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Mandy is a big deal and I love, we love Brown ambition.
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We love Mandy moneymakers.
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Listen, I will be up in my bed anytime you do, you know a free workshop or anything.
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I'm there in the bed with my headphones on and I'm like you got to put the kids to sleep.
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I've got a session.
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I've got to listen to what Mandy has to say.
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So huge fan, so honored and delighted to have you here, while making a whole human and all the things.
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Yeah, likewise, thank you for having me.
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Yes, of course.
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So let's get into this bio so that everybody understands who you are and why I'm so excited and why you're such a big deal.
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Okay, all right.
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Mandy Woodruff Santos is a globally recognized career expert, founder of the Mandy Moneymakers and co-host of the two-time almost three.
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We're going to speak it into three.
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Today we found out, we won.
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Oh my God, I we found out.
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We won.
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Oh my God, Congratulations.
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I voted Yay, congratulations, Thank you.
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Okay, so three-time Webby award-winning podcast Brown Ambition, we will link it because it's amazing and I love the conversations you and Tiffany have.
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Through her online career coaching community, the Mandy Moneymakers, she is on a mission to help women of color achieve their wildest financial and career ambitions.
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With over 6 million podcast downloads and over 65,000 followers across Instagram, TikTok, LinkedIn and more, Mandy has created a unique community of BIPOC baddies ready to stop settling for less and level up in their careers.
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Ready to stop settling for less and level up in their careers.
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As a negotiation and career expert, Mandy is a regular contributor to Yahoo Finance Live and has been featured on the New York Times, CNBC, CNN, the Dr Phil Show, ABC World News Tonight, CBS this Morning, Business Insider, Essence, Teen Vogue and more.
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Girl do you sleep?
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Yes, lots.
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Oh, maybe that's, maybe that's, let's keep this in perspective.
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This is this took a decade to build that bio.
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Okay, so I'm not doing that every day, but yeah, overnight success that took 10 years, right?
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well, listen, that bio is on fire.
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I'm I'm so proud of you.
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I've I feel like I've been on this journey with you and I've seen the growth and just everything that you've done for the community and I just think it's really incredible, so you have so much to be proud of.
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Thank you.
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Thank you so much, I receive it.
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So we want to kick off with your first or earliest money memory today.
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Yeah, whenever people ask me this question, I tend to well, there's a couple and they're both like kind of sad.
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But the first one is I remember my I'm a child of divorce and I always want to say Adele, divorce, both of us.
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Yeah.
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So I remember my parents constantly fighting about money and that was definitely one of the precipitating factors that triggered their divorce.
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But I was around I don't know like between seven and 10 and they had a particularly bad fight and I had this like pencil shaped like a Crayola crayon, shaped piggy bank, and I remember I left it out overnight with like a little note for my mom Like I hope this helps, please don't fight anymore note for my mom like.
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I hope this helps.
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Please don't fight anymore.
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I told you.
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It was sad I was not expecting that I know.
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And then the other one that I tell is like my mom going to jc penny, like we would go together and she was always looking for like a bigger accordion wallet, like the ones that could fit more cards.
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You know the big fat suckers that they used to sell.
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Do they still sell them?
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Um, those, those are some of the you know those moments for me, yeah, so money was in, not in high supply and not necessarily something that sparked much joy and in my, in my youth.
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But that all changed when I learned I had control in my 20s.
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It was great I always find it so interesting when you hear about, you know, people's early money memories, because you know two individuals can have the same or a similar money memory but how they respond to it can be, you know, completely different.
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You know, like for me, like I was fortunate enough that even though my mom raised my brother and I from you know, basically age fives when my parents got divorced, that luckily, money was not an issue for us.
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You know my mom was a college professor and she was, you know, financially responsible.
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So but you know her frugality is what I picked up on because, you know, with her being a single mom, making sure that my brother and I had everything.
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Yeah.
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Very frugal woman still to this day, even though she doesn't need to be.
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But that's exactly how I am.
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Yeah, she had no safety net.
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Yeah, of course it was just her.
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So, yeah, I have.
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I just want to.
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I just want to like acknowledge single moms I just think that they're freaking or single parents in general, just freaking superheroes, what they have to do Now that I'm a father?
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I tell her every day I was like I have no idea how you raised my brother.
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My husband's really afraid of me dying now Like he thinks about my mortality way more than ever because he's like you can't go anywhere, yeah you can't do it alone.
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You can't do it alone.
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I don't know.
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I feel the time I was like she would be the better single parent than I would.
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I don't think I wouldn't be I don't know about that, but do you think that men do?
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Because you know we're there.
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But if you had to, you would rise, don't you worry, you'd be the best.
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Never has never.
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That's the case, hopefully never has to.
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But you know, I'm in my hormonal era so I think about the worst all the time.
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I know, I know one of um doomsday.
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You're like what's the um?
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The show that we used to watch um that's us where they would do the worst case scenario and they, like would go really dark.
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Did you watch that, oh?
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yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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What's what are the?
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Beth and Randall?
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Yes, I love that, you know honestly, and I've got a friend of mine for our news to Robbie.
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She's another really excellent podcaster and personal finance educator and she has a book coming out called healthy state of panic and I just love the title and the premise because I believe and through my own coaching, like as a career coach and negotiation coach, a lot of my practice and my philosophies are based on being ready for what if you know, but not necessarily letting that keep you in bed under the covers Like why do I even bother?
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But how can that propel you forward?
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How can that make you make smart decisions with your career so that you are better prepared you?
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I like to live in the space of optimistic optimism, but also reality.
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Yeah, as a financial advisor, I plan for worst case scenario Exactly.
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It's not going to happen, but if we can get through worst case scenario, then you're good.
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Yeah, exactly A hundred percent.
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Yeah, well.
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And two, sometimes the planning aspect of planning for the worst helps lessen that fear and anxiety, because then you do end up prepared Right and then, when you're not faced with the worst, then you can celebrate.
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So I think you think about the worst long enough to prepare, and then you let it go, because you can't ultimately predict or you know, but it makes you feel like you know, that you've got the safety net, you know that you've got things in place, you know, and then?
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But the point, the key is not to get stuck in that cycle of only living in the space of bad things will happen Right.
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Yeah, cause that's debilitating and not healthy.
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I also say like a lot of people have anxiety around money for like two main reasons.
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One, the lack of financial literacy.
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So you know, they just simply don't understand and don't know what they're supposed to do.
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But then also the second part is that they don't have a plan.
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So you know, having a plan in place obviously helps lessen a lot of that anxiety.
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Yeah, I totally agree.
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The hard part is convincing people to do that work when they're just in survival mode every day, doing their best.
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You know, yeah, so you do that work.
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Well, Brandon, one of his favorite things to say is if I have to convince you that you need a financial advisor, you're not ready, Cause he's like you need to come to me knowing that you are ready for help.
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And he said we were planning for another event that we have this week, and he made the analogy of you don't go to a personal trainer when you've got a six pack of abs and 11% body fat.
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You go when your goal is to get there, if that's what it is, and so, same thing, you don't go to a financial advisor once you have millions.
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You go when you have the means to pay for one and you're ready to receive the guidance and the education.
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So yeah, either way.
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I think sometimes it happens the other way too.
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I think sometimes you, especially with you, know me and my career.
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It wasn't until I had extra money to think about that I was like, okay, maybe I should be doing something with this.
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And then I, and then you start thinking what else can be done beyond the 401k and you start getting like a little ambitious.
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And then that thing, that's where you need someone to like rein you in and remind you that you know the, the basic vanilla financial.
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You know practices are really the sexiest things you could be doing, you know.
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I always say you know, good financial planning is boring.
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It's not sexy.
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Yeah exactly.
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Well, Mandy, so you mentioned the bio, taking you 10 years to get to right education and the training that you're doing with your Mandy moneymakers.
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You were a financial journalist, editorial leader.
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Talk to us about where Mandy moneymakers came from, where that started, why that started and how it's grown over the years.
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Well, I'm a sucker for alliteration and I'm lazy, so Mandy Moneymakers just came from that I had, yeah.
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So I started my career.
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Well, I studied as a journalist and when I moved to New York, I sort of accidentally found my way into covering personal finance.
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It was the great recession and I learned that.
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I really loved it.
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It was juicy and there was enough to sink my teeth into.
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I felt like I was challenged and I felt like there was a need for it to have really great reporters and reporting of what was happening, especially for millennials from my generation, our generation.
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And then I did really well.
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I spent the next decade really building a brand and a reputation as a great financial journalist.
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And then I wanted to be a leader.
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I knew I had the stuff to be a leader, so I pursued an opportunity to run content for a startup and that sort of kicked off a six-year period where I was on the other side not necessarily writing as much, but managing writers and managing a team and overseeing strategy, and that introduced me to a whole different side of corporate and went through an acquisition and it was all great.
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And then, around 2021, I took what I thought was going to be a dream job for myself and ended up not being a dream job for myself and ended up not being a dream job.
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And I was so lucky that when it didn't work out, I didn't have to immediately scramble to get another.
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Nine to five.
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I had time to reflect and it was with my financial advisor shout out to Brandon and the work that you had to do my financial advisor, helen, that we had a meeting after I decided not to go back and she was the one to say you could do this.
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I've seen what you've done in five years and if you want to branch out on your own, you've got the savings for it.
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You've got something you can do.
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You can do it.
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And I was like, okay, and I really credit my 22 through 28 year old self for making some really key financial choices that enabled me to be in a position where I could start my own business and not have to go back and work for someone else because I didn't want to at that time.
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So I spent 2021, I got some consulting clients to bring some income in immediately and then I played and then I wanted to see could I talk about career?
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Could I help people and coach them?
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I had been doing it for so long through Brown Ambition I've always been the nine to five girly and Tiffany was always the business baddie.
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So we had a great kind of you listen, we had a great sort of we could just very complimentary to one another with our skills and our knowledge.
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And then I started to offer free sessions.
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I like posted on IG, 200 women signed up and I was doing free half hour coaching sessions through like six months over a six month period, wanted to get in to the heart of what women were going through, women of color, what was plaguing us in our careers, what kept us up at night, what we needed and you know it was unique.
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It was a sense of isolation and, um, the sense of feel.
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You know what the, the comp like, the compounding impact of being the only one or being one of few for years and years and years throughout your career, and creating this sense of like I'm lonely.
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I want community, I want connection, I want more confidence and not really having a place to go for that.
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So from that I decided to launch my community.
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So it's not just a career coaching course or a place where I do group coaching, but it truly is a place where these women from so many diverse backgrounds, so many different countries now I've got makers in Kenya, nigeria, australia so it's great and we gather together and really lift one another up.
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And that is what I think is really unique about my community and my program, because I truly listened to what women were wanting and it wasn't just teach me how to negotiate, it was teach me how to survive after the negotiation, teach me how to have a support system in place so that, when and if something goes wrong, I have a place to go to for support and to bounce back from.
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I love that.
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I do want to pivot back.
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All of that was amazing.
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I want to pivot back to what you said at the very beginning, with your money memory you putting your Crayola piggy bank on the table, trying to help mom.
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You were living in New York.
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You were young.
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I've listened to all of you Georgia, I'm from Georgia yes, but then when you moved to New York and you were working yes, yes, yes, salary wise like you were making a good living, but it's New York, so you weren't right.
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Well, I wasn't, and it's also New York so doubly so I was not making great money, exactly I was making like 30K, yeah, but you had savings.
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How did you learn that you needed savings and how to be fiscally responsible so that you didn't have to go back to a toxic work environment when you were like this is not working?
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Yeah, especially since it wasn't, I guess, modeled for you, right.
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Yeah, exactly.
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Well, I think that the I had enough.
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I don't know.
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I was always the kind of person to observe and to really see how people in my family were responding to certain events and then critically think about how I would do it differently.
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And I felt like when I was in my twenties I felt like I had the stage now like I'm going to show them I can do things differently and I'll do it this way go to college and not, you know, not have a bunch of kids and you know, and and try to be fiscally responsible.
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Of course, I thought I knew it all and I was like perfect and whatever.
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I obviously wasn't.
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Um, yeah, right like every 20 year old but yeah, but for me, when I moved to New York, I I got a job.
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I, you know, I got a job during the great recession at a magazine which was my dream, and three months into working it I was lit, I was laid off, and for me that was a really early wake-up call that if I didn't get it together sooner rather than later, um, I would end up I was no different than other people that I had judged, you know, like it doesn't have to be because you did something wrong.
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It's just that, you know, something out of your control happened and you just didn't happen to have what you needed to push, to bounce back.
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And I remember that feeling of financial insecurity and being like I thought I was going to be different, you know.
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And so, from there, it was really dedicating myself to education and, like I said, I accidentally ended up covering personal finance a couple of years later and that really gave me such a great, you know, such a great education.
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I literally got to talk to people like yourself, brandon, every day and pick their brains about what we should be doing, and I took their advice for free.
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I'll quote you an article, but I don't know what to do if I've been let go and I learned about the 401k and I learned about contributing 10% and how compounding interest works and little by little, it felt like I was unlocking cheat codes that hadn't really been available or taught to me, like so many others in my position, and that's really what made a difference.
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I don't know.
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I mean, I do and I don't.
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I don't know if I hadn't had to do it for work, I don't know how quickly I would have really embraced financial education.
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I was definitely attracted to, like.
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There was a lot of bloggers that came out.
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Tiffany, for example her budget needs to blog.
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I met her because I wrote about her for business insider when I was a reporter there, because I was looking for cool, you know, financial educators.
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But I really am grateful that I had that opportunity to make it my job to get smarter about money.
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Oh, I love that.
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I was actually living in New York during the great recession as well.
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Okay, we survived, barely made it out.
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I was only there for a few months.
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Then I was like I don't think this is quite for me, so oh, really A few months.
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Scaredy cat.
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I was there for when I say a few, probably like five or six.
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Yeah, oh pish posh, that's an internship, I'm just kidding.
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Fine, where do y'all live now?
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We're in Raleigh, yep, right outside of Raleigh.
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I just read the book on the top shelf and I'm like duh.
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Oh, yeah, yeah.
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I was like what book?
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Yeah, that is that's where we are great city.
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If you're ever here, definitely let us know.
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The carolinas are popping man.
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Everyone wants to live in the carolinas now and georgia cost of living is not bad.
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Yeah, the cost of living.
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I know don't have, don't have to tell me, but I married a new york city government worker so I'm a little stuck for now.